A year is really a short time, and later you will be glad you postponed getting married.
一年其实是很短的,过后你将会为你推迟了婚期而感到高兴的。
not because he cannot afford, or shuns, their meterial comforts, but because he is afraid of them.
这并不是因为他们付不起钱,也不是为了躲避物质享受,而是因为他们害怕酒店。